What is Integrity? To start you’re NOT a Man without it!

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,130 No, I, I didn't stutter and mess up the title. 2 00:00:02,130 --> 00:00:03,600 I'm not mincing words on this one. 3 00:00:04,110 --> 00:00:06,270 We make no apologies for being men here. 4 00:00:07,380 --> 00:00:11,460 I may not grunt, growl, or beat my chest on camera a bunch, but 5 00:00:11,460 --> 00:00:14,130 on this channel, make no mistake. 6 00:00:14,460 --> 00:00:16,680 There are some things that are non-negotiables and 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:17,790 integrity is one of them. 8 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:19,140 Celest, get into it. 9 00:00:19,830 --> 00:00:21,420 Here's the million dollar question. 10 00:00:21,900 --> 00:00:25,110 How do men like us reach our full potential and grow into 11 00:00:25,110 --> 00:00:28,740 the men we dream of being while taking care of our responsi? 12 00:00:29,100 --> 00:00:34,380 Working, being good husbands, fathers, and still take care of ourselves. 13 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:36,960 That's the question in this podcast. 14 00:00:37,290 --> 00:00:38,580 We'll help you with those answers. 15 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:41,580 My name is Brent and welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast. 16 00:00:41,580 --> 00:00:43,290 Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast, your home for all 17 00:00:43,290 --> 00:00:44,520 things, man, husband, and father. 18 00:00:44,820 --> 00:00:48,240 Big shout out to Fallible Nation in a warm welcome to our first time listeners. 19 00:00:48,629 --> 00:00:50,730 My name is Brent and I am the fallible man. 20 00:00:51,210 --> 00:00:53,670 Today we're getting down to the core tenant of being a man. 21 00:00:54,345 --> 00:00:56,955 We've discussed it on this channel that being a male is 22 00:00:56,955 --> 00:00:58,695 a matter of biological sex. 23 00:00:58,815 --> 00:00:59,655 Yes, I said it. 24 00:00:59,745 --> 00:01:00,285 Deal with it. 25 00:01:00,885 --> 00:01:03,915 Being masculine is a combination of physical, emotional, mental, and 26 00:01:03,915 --> 00:01:05,805 spiritual traits and characteristics. 27 00:01:06,465 --> 00:01:10,485 Being a man in society, being recognized as a man by other men is 28 00:01:10,485 --> 00:01:13,245 a matter of being male masculine. 29 00:01:14,729 --> 00:01:17,250 Certain betray behavioral traits and core principles. 30 00:01:17,940 --> 00:01:22,949 You can be a boy, you can be male, but you have to work to be a man. 31 00:01:23,789 --> 00:01:28,020 Integrity is a non-negotiable core tenant of being a man. 32 00:01:28,740 --> 00:01:29,369 So what is it? 33 00:01:29,875 --> 00:01:32,575 One thing I usually don't share is how impactful the podcast 34 00:01:32,575 --> 00:01:33,685 has been for me personally. 35 00:01:34,315 --> 00:01:37,345 There's a lot I love and appreciate because I have the podcast. 36 00:01:37,645 --> 00:01:39,895 I become somebody who can approach people easier. 37 00:01:39,895 --> 00:01:42,325 I have a better network of people to call upon when I need 'em. 38 00:01:42,745 --> 00:01:46,465 I get to meet new people all the time from all walks of life and all over the 39 00:01:46,465 --> 00:01:50,935 globe and connect with 'em at a depot level, and I have a voice to do what I. 40 00:01:51,660 --> 00:01:55,289 I'm always put into situations where I'm having to stretch and learn something new. 41 00:01:55,619 --> 00:01:58,289 I've really grown as a person and a professional since I started doing 42 00:01:58,289 --> 00:02:02,160 my podcast, and that was even before my show really started growing. 43 00:02:03,089 --> 00:02:06,389 I hired a company called Grow Your Show, who's our sponsor, by the way, 44 00:02:06,990 --> 00:02:08,280 and I wanted to share them with you. 45 00:02:08,699 --> 00:02:11,609 The owner, Adam, has one of the very best podcasts for teaching 46 00:02:11,609 --> 00:02:12,870 you how to be a podcaster. 47 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,880 I honestly wish I had found it sooner. 48 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,780 One thing that they've done to help me is to bring me to a much larger 49 00:02:18,780 --> 00:02:21,930 listener base so that my voice is being heard around the world. 50 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,890 There's a good chance, in fact that they helped us connect, but they 51 00:02:25,890 --> 00:02:27,870 also do editing and post-production. 52 00:02:28,380 --> 00:02:31,770 They can even help you launch and start your podcast, which could 53 00:02:31,775 --> 00:02:34,860 really help you in your business or whatever you're trying to achieve. 54 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,470 So I just wanted to give them a quick shout out. 55 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,310 I love to share great people and companies that I believe in, that I use person. 56 00:02:42,285 --> 00:02:44,984 So that's Grow Your show@growyourshow.com. 57 00:02:45,315 --> 00:02:48,734 I have a link in the show notes, and if you have a podcast or you wanna start 58 00:02:48,734 --> 00:02:52,005 a podcast or you're thinking about it, just scroll down there, click that 59 00:02:52,005 --> 00:02:54,075 link and go Work with my friend Adam. 60 00:02:54,315 --> 00:02:55,454 He's gonna treat you right. 61 00:02:56,055 --> 00:03:01,755 Miriam defines it as a firm adherence to code of especially moral artistic values 62 00:03:01,845 --> 00:03:08,385 in Corruptibility, an unpaired condition, soundness, or the quality or state of 63 00:03:08,385 --> 00:03:11,035 being complete or undivided complete. 64 00:03:12,225 --> 00:03:13,454 So let's tackle that a little bit. 65 00:03:14,024 --> 00:03:16,635 Affirm adherence to especially moral code. 66 00:03:17,325 --> 00:03:20,475 The majority of people know what's right and what's wrong. 67 00:03:21,195 --> 00:03:24,375 The people who don't seem to have dead in themselves without voice inside 68 00:03:24,375 --> 00:03:29,234 them, either by choice are by the way their world has shaped them, and those 69 00:03:29,234 --> 00:03:30,674 are really extreme cases for that. 70 00:03:31,424 --> 00:03:34,575 You don't need the Tin Commandments, the Noble Eight Full Path or the 71 00:03:34,575 --> 00:03:39,375 Dharma to understand a basic sense of right or wrong, an unpaired condition. 72 00:03:40,425 --> 00:03:43,275 This is not talking about being physically whole. 73 00:03:43,395 --> 00:03:45,195 We're not talking about people with disabilities or 74 00:03:45,195 --> 00:03:46,515 something ridiculous like that. 75 00:03:47,265 --> 00:03:48,795 Let's talk about being impaired. 76 00:03:49,335 --> 00:03:53,025 Being a liar impairs you and it impairs your credibility. 77 00:03:53,625 --> 00:03:56,385 Being unreliable impairs your credibility. 78 00:03:57,075 --> 00:03:59,625 Being hammered impairs your credibility. 79 00:04:00,105 --> 00:04:04,335 Being mentally impaired by a substance or advice impairs your credibility. 80 00:04:04,665 --> 00:04:08,325 Read that as abuse and addiction being ill temper. 81 00:04:08,864 --> 00:04:09,975 Being inconsistent. 82 00:04:10,484 --> 00:04:12,525 These things impair you. 83 00:04:13,545 --> 00:04:16,844 All these things put you in an impaired condition, so you 84 00:04:16,850 --> 00:04:18,524 better be actively working on it. 85 00:04:19,485 --> 00:04:21,045 And if you are, that's okay. 86 00:04:21,344 --> 00:04:25,965 I understand you're not perfect, but at least be working on it being complete. 87 00:04:25,969 --> 00:04:30,795 Our whole you have to sync alignment with your life, align 88 00:04:30,795 --> 00:04:34,155 your purpose, your thoughts, your actions, your choices, your life. 89 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,000 To be whole is a major journey that we're all actively pursuing. 90 00:04:39,030 --> 00:04:41,609 I'm not gonna tell you I'm completely whole, I'm working on it. 91 00:04:42,630 --> 00:04:46,169 The term integrity is often explained as being a person who will do the right 92 00:04:46,169 --> 00:04:50,250 thing when no one is watching, despite the cost of doing the right thing. 93 00:04:51,270 --> 00:04:55,560 Focusing on integrity may be the hardest and most worthwhile gift you 94 00:04:55,560 --> 00:05:00,539 will ever give yourself to live life with integrity is a challenge, but 95 00:05:00,544 --> 00:05:03,750 it'll make you the kind of man that people want to know and be close to. 96 00:05:04,455 --> 00:05:07,665 So let's get to work on it now. 97 00:05:07,995 --> 00:05:10,935 It is the Friday show, so I wanted to share a user review. 98 00:05:11,265 --> 00:05:15,555 And guys, I'm so grateful when you take the time to help us out by doing 99 00:05:15,555 --> 00:05:20,145 this one, user left us helpful content. 100 00:05:20,655 --> 00:05:23,625 I appreciate how this podcast is not pretending to be anything 101 00:05:23,685 --> 00:05:26,625 other than a person trying to help other people be their best selves. 102 00:05:27,165 --> 00:05:30,015 The information is valuable while gear towards men. 103 00:05:30,015 --> 00:05:33,015 The parenting device would apply to any parent regardless. 104 00:05:34,080 --> 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